biological family

5 Tips for Establishing Boundaries After an Adoption Reunion

5 Tips for Establishing Boundaries After an Adoption Reunion

We, as adoptees, did not choose to be adopted... but our adoption reunion gives us the opportunity to make our own choices about our adoption for the first time.

Why I Started Looking For My Birth Parents

Why I Started Looking For My Birth Parents

My birth parents had always just been this vague concept... But it was in the middle of the night on Christmas Eve that I realized there were two very real people out there somewhere who gave me life.

Two Words That Changed Everything

Two Words That Changed Everything

I got out my laptop and sat on a barstool in my kitchen, browsing Facebook and practicing the best self-control I could.  I have a little brother.  I typed in his name and a profile appeared of a teenager from my hometown.  Not just from my hometown, but from my high school.  I clicked on his page, and my jaw dropped

7 Things Adoptees Need to Know When Considering Reunification

7 Things Adoptees Need to Know When Considering Reunification

God has put you in this unique situation because, believe it or not, you can handle it.  Without a doubt, it will be trying, but you will learn so much about yourself.  Whether or not you choose to reunite with your biological family, the process of processing it will grow you and mold you in ways you never realized you could.  Take heart, dear adoptee.  You are not alone.