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Why I Started Looking For My Birth Parents

Why I Started Looking For My Birth Parents

My birth parents had always just been this vague concept... But it was in the middle of the night on Christmas Eve that I realized there were two very real people out there somewhere who gave me life.

Breaking the Ice on International Waters

Breaking the Ice on International Waters

One day, we were standing on the upper deck sipping boat drinks and inhaling the ocean breeze.  My biological dad and I were choking back emotion as we talked about this second chance we were given to know one another.

A Birth Family Reunion at a Funeral

A Birth Family Reunion at a Funeral

It hadn’t really occurred to me that a funeral would bring about the chance to meet my biological aunts, uncles, cousins and grandfather for the first time...  Not only would I be mourning... I would be making a first impression on the rest of my birth mother’s family.  

Is The Term "Gotcha Day" Offensive?

Is The Term "Gotcha Day" Offensive?

When I first heard it, it totally rubbed me the wrong way. “Gotcha Day” sounds like something out of a Pokemon episode . . . you know the bit: Gotta Catch ‘Em All, POKEMON!  If you had asked me this question when I first heard the phrase, I’d have told you that it was definitely offensive.

Birth Mom Callie Jett: Connecting the Pro Life Movement to Adoption

Birth Mom Callie Jett: Connecting the Pro Life Movement to Adoption

Callie is making a big difference in the adoption community in a unique way. Her biggest passion is connecting the adoption community with the pro-life movement. Her non-profit organization, Talk About Adoption, exists to present women facing an unplanned pregnancy with the option of adoption. “We’re birth moms—that’s what makes us unique. When women face an unplanned pregnancy, we’re women who have been through it,” she says.

Why the #ShoutYourAbortion Campaign Keeps Me Up At Night

Why the #ShoutYourAbortion Campaign Keeps Me Up At Night
 Want to have a real discussion about strong women?  Then we have to have a discussion about birth mothers.  These women, these WARRIORS, wake up every day with their bellies growing a little bit larger.  These same warriors looked death in the face when they were given the option to abort their baby.  These warriors had the courage to say, “No, I will sacrifice myself so that death will not win.”